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Wait a Minute
No Matter What you Heard,
That’s Just Not True!
Everyday
Misconceptions
about
Catholicism
(originally appeared in Seton weekly bulletin)
by Msgr. Thomas Sandi
(Click on a underlined statement for more
information)
Catholics are
automatically excommunicated when they get divorced. Not true!
A divorce dissolves the civil marriage bond. It does not
affect the sacramental bond of marriage. At a church
marriage a couple is bound by two bonds. The sacramental
bond can never be broken.

Catholic annulment is really just “Catholic divorce.” Not true!
An annulment is a church
declaration that the Sacrament of Marriage bond (not the
civil union of husband and wife) does not exist, due to some
irregularity.

Catholics have to go to confession before they receive Holy
Communion. Not true!
Not unless you have committed a serious (mortal) sin.

Divorced Catholics can just “buy an annulment” if they have enough
money.
Not true! The Marriage tribunal has a set fee for
processing a church annulment, and the judgment about the
validity of the sacrament of marriage is not contingent upon payment
of any kind.

Catholics can’t eat meat on Ash Wednesday and Lenten Fridays and Ash
Wednesday (abstinence) no matter what. Not true!
For a very serious reason
(including age and illness), any Catholic may “dispense
himself/herself” from this Lenten obligation, and then fulfill
his/her obligation at a later date. For example, you are about to
begin eating at a formal dinner party on a Friday evening and,
unexpectedly, they serve a meat dish. Transfer your obligation to
abstain from meat to Saturday.

Everyone present at Mass should receive Holy Communion. Not true!
Only Catholics who are not conscious of very serious sin may
receive the Eucharist.

Everyone gets Blessed Ashes on Ash Wednesday. Not true!
Unlike most sacramental's, those who have not yet reached the age of
reason and celebrated their First Penance are not capable of
understanding, or responsible for carrying out, the obligation “to
turn away from sin and believe the Gospel.” Very young Children
usually receive a blessing after their parents receive ashes.

Anyone can act as a godparent at Baptism and Confirmation. Not
true!
Only a practicing Catholic, who
is living a faithful Catholic life, who is at least fourteen,
and who has himself received Confirmation, may act as a
godparent (sponsor) at these sacraments. However, a non-Catholic
Christian may act as a “Christian Witness” along with the Catholic
sponsor.

The “Immaculate Conception” refers to the manner in which Jesus was
conceived in Mary. Not true.
It celebrates the fact that Mary
was born immaculate (sinless).

Suicides are not allowed to be buried from the church nor be buried
in consecrated ground.
Not true! A person who tragically takes his own life
is usually not “in his right mind,” and therefore commits no sin.
The parish will celebrate the Funeral Mass and bury him/her.

Catholics don’t have to go to confession anymore. Not true!
If something is seriously wrong, you know it’s
seriously wrong, you freely choose to do it, and you do
it, you have committed a serious sin and need to receive the
Sacrament of Reconciliation.

Jesus despaired when he said from
the cross, “My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?”
Not true! He was reciting
Psalm 22.

Mary Magdalene was a “fallen
woman.” Not true!
She
was not the (unnamed) woman caught in adultery nor the woman
(Mary of Bethany) who anointed Jesus’ feet, nor the fallen woman who
anointed his feet in the house of the Pharisee. She was a person
Jesus cured of “seven devils,” (probably mental or psychological
illness), and the first to whom he appeared after rising from the
dead.

Catholics don’t fast from food
before receiving Holy Communion anymore.
Not true. We fast from food for one hour before receiving the
Eucharist out of respect for the Body and Blood of Christ.

No one can receive communion twice
on one day. Not true!
If you have to attend two different masses for a good reason (e.g.,
Sunday morning mass and then an afternoon Nuptial mass) you may
receive the Eucharist at both.

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